Life as a Business Owner - I'm Back! What Life + Business Have Taught Me This Year - Ep. 55
- Rizza Mae Marvel
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This article is adapted from an episode of Intentional Branding where I talk through this topic in more detail.
Im back! This episode is a reflection on what the last year looked like behind the scenes. Becoming a mom of two while continuing to run a business forced a reset in the best way. It reshaped how success feels, how balance works, and what kind of business actually supports real life. This article walks through the shifts, lessons, and systems that made it possible to keep growing without burning out.
Life as a Business Owner - What the Last Year Taught Me About Balance, Business, and Letting Things Evolve
1. The Business Shift From One Kid to Two
Going from one child to two changes everything, but not always in the ways you expect. With the first, everything feels new and survival-based. With the second, you already know yourself better as a parent. Life keeps moving, and business has to move too.
That meant creating new systems and new expectations instead of trying to force old routines to work. The biggest mindset shift was accepting that growth does not stop just because your life expands. It simply needs to look different.
2. Making Part-Time Hours Actually Work
Part-time hours became the foundation of balance. The shift was not about cramming eight hours into four. It was about asking, “How do I make four hours work for me?”
That meant:
Identifying high-impact tasks
Letting go of busy work (emails are now done at the END of the day instead of the beginning)
Building a schedule around when the most of my focus was at its peak
For me, mornings became family time and that's an important part of our daily routine. Work happened later in the day, usually between two and six. Once I stopped fighting my energy levels and leaned into a schedule that fit real life, everything felt lighter and more sustainable.
3. Support Makes Focus Possible
Working while kids are home is hard. Being a small business owner requires focus and support, whether that comes from family, paid help, or creative solutions.
Having my dad watch my kids during work hours allowed for deep focus instead of constant interruption. Even in earlier seasons, hiring a younger family member for a few hours while I worked in my home office made a huge difference. Support does not have to look one specific way to be effective. If you want to hire an employee and save time that way I think thats a great way to move business forward but also get that work life balance all all small business owners crave.
4. Scaling Required Systems and Guidance
As the business shifted from startup to growth mode, clarity became essential. Refining core services, understanding income streams, and planning intentionally all became priorities.
That is when I joined Modern CEO led by Amber McCue. Learning how to plan the year, my cash flow, break goals into manageable timelines, and stay focused changed everything. The accountability and access to guidance made it easier to follow through and grow with intention. If you walk away with one thing from this article I say find an accountability partner.
I also joined Female Entrepreneurs Association, I mainly joined for community. There's a lot of other business owners who talk about thier challenges and whats working for them and to have that support and insight is always a great to keep the momemtum and keep going during the hard seasons of business.
5. The Accidental Booking Strategy That Prevented Burnout
One of the biggest lessons came from something that happened unintentionally. I started booking one website project per month. I didn't think clients would be up for it but I had so many website inquiries at once I had no choice but to book them out months ahead.
Clear start dates, clear deadlines, and clear expectations made projects smoother for everyone involved. Clients were more prepared, I stayed focused, and burnout stayed away.
If you are overwhelmed but do not want to turn people away, booking ahead and setting boundaries can be a game changer. If people want to work with you they will be willing to wait for it. The nice part is you can have then get content ready while they are waiting for their design timeslot!
6. Planning the Year to Stay in Control
Planning the year ahead brought clarity and calm. Blocking out vacations, weddings, personal time, and slower months made it easier to say yes or no to projects with confidence.
Knowing the bigger picture allowed space for life while still supporting business goals. Planning is not about restriction. It is about freedom and control. I highly recommend sitting down and blocking out time for your life, your mental health will thank you. Running a sucessful business truly is about systems and planning ahead.
7. Content Is About Connection, Not Just Conversion
Social media is so draining when success is measured only by metrics. Shifting the focus from conversion to connection changed everything.
I realized that engaging in conversations, commenting thoughtfully, and building relationships matters more than chasing numbers. Trust builds over time, and those connections often lead to opportunities long after the post is published. Its true when they say people buy people they know, like and trust.
8. Networking Online and Offline Still Matters
Networking remains powerful, especially when it is approached with genuine curiosity instead of expectation. Continuing to attend events like the Innovation Summit reinforced how valuable face-to-face connection can be.
Not every interaction leads to immediate work, but many lead to future opportunities. I normally do an Innovation Short presentation where you speak on a topic for 10 mins and its always a hit. People will come up to me after and share their thoughts and every year atleast one person I interact with becomes a client, maybe not right away but definitely in the future. The same applies to online communities and group spaces. Showing up consistently builds visibility and trust. I've also meet a couple of my contractor this way which is an extra win.
9. Launching New Things Requires Support and Messy Action
Launching my first webinar was nerve-wracking, but it never would have happened without support from Amber at the Modern CEO. From email strategy to ads to tech, having guidance made the process possible. Also the accountability aspect is a must to actually get the guts to launch which has been on my to do list for many years.
Messy action continues to be the best teacher. Some experiments work beautifully. Others quietly fade. Every attempt brings clarity and direction, even when the outcome is not what you expected.
Recap: Key Takeaways
You can grow a business while growing your family. It may look different, but it is possible.
Part-time hours can work when they are built around real energy and focus.
Support makes deep work and balance achievable.
The right coach or community can completely shift your growth.
Booking ahead and setting timelines prevents burnout.
Planning your year creates clarity and control.
Content works best when it builds connection, not just conversion.
Networking is a long game with lasting impact.
Messy action leads to the best systems and growth.
This season proved that business does not need to come at the cost of life. When the business supports the life you want, success feels sustainable and aligned. Happy designing.
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